Ever been ghosted by someone?

 Well Homo sapiens are complex and also very unique beings aren't they? I am one too! and most importantly there are positive and negatives about being a human being or even being around other human beings! As every cheesy movie line says that there are about 7 billion people in this planet I'm definitely someone who asks "WHY ME" all the time! I'm pretty sure everyone reading my blog has been ghosted by someone in some way or another and yes that is a really bad thing to go through and according to a study by POF approximately 80% of millennials have been ghosted and that's crazy!! ghosting someone is also a sort of mental abuse and people thinking it as a trend must totally stop because you're just hurting somebody who doesn't know why you're ignoring them. It is fine to cut someone off your life but not stating a reason and just leaving them to ponder upon where they have gone wrong or overthink upon such behavior makes them almost get a mini panic attack and the chain goes onto to deep depression, anxiety, and they lose faith in anything and everything. According to me, ghosting is simply toxic and being someone who has experienced that multiple times through out my life it wasn't easy to go through that. Sure people would be like just move on in life it's that simple why do you keep dwelling upon such things?, Well all I can say is it's easier said than done. The best way is probably to actually confront the person in real life as hard as it sounds it will definitely make things easier. So if you're someone who believes that ghosting isn't that bad PLEASE JUST STOP HURTING THE OTHER PERSON it is not a nice feeling! just talk to them about whatever is bothering you and that will be so much more better for the both of you! stay strong!! :)

~Nitya